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Dr. Saf Buxy, BACP
- Credentials
- BACP
- Experience
- 20 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression
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Dr. Saf Buxy helps people facing stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, low self‑esteem and depression. He also supports those navigating relationship and family tensions, grief, intimacy concerns, eating and sleeping problems, parenting strain, and career or life transitions.
Dr. Buxy uses straightforward, respectful conversation to help people find clearer next steps. He works in a calm, practical way.
Sessions focus on what is happening now and on skills people can use between meetings.
Background and approach
He adapts the pace and tone to the person sitting across from him, offering listening, practical suggestions and coaching as needed. With 20 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom, Dr. Buxy has worked across a wide range of emotional and behavioural difficulties.
His recorded focus areas include issues such as attachment and abandonment, body image, caregiver stress, codependency, commitment and communication problems, and coping after disasters. He holds BACP accreditation, which is noted here as provided. His background means he is comfortable talking about complex, overlapping problems including bipolar disorder, co‑morbidity and compassion fatigue.
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts clients internationally. People can expect a direct but compassionate style that balances listening with practical steps. Dr.
Buxy encourages small, manageable changes and checks in on progress regularly. He aims to make therapy something that fits a person’s life, not an added burden.
Therapeutic approaches and how they work online
Dr. Buxy uses evidence‑based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change and emotional understanding. One common approach he uses emphasises identifying patterns in thoughts and behaviours and trying different responses - this helps with anxiety, depression, low self‑esteem and unhelpful habits. Another approach focuses on processing trauma and difficult experiences through guided conversations and pacing the work to what the person can manage; this is often useful for trauma, abuse and grief.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss options with the person, try things out, and adjust methods based on how well they meet the individual’s goals and preferences. Decisions are guided by what the person says is most helpful and what produces gradual change.
Online therapy offers practical benefits for many people. Video calls let the therapist see facial expressions and body language, while phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be easier during a busy day. Live chat and text‑based messaging suit short check‑ins, written reflection or when writing feels more comfortable than speaking. These options make it easier to fit sessions around work, travel and family life and to keep continuity when circumstances change.
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
- Experience
- 20 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English
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