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Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS
- Credentials
- BACP, NCPS
- Experience
- 14 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English, American Sign Language
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression
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Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years of experience based in the United Kingdom. She holds BACP and NCPS credentials and offers tailored support for people facing stress, anxiety, depression and other life challenges. Paula uses a mix of therapeutic methods to match each person's needs and goals.
Paula keeps sessions straightforward and practical. She listens carefully, helps people name what is happening, and then works with them to try new ways of coping.
Background and approach
Sessions aim to reduce immediate distress and build skills for everyday life. Her background includes work with trauma, addiction, grief and relationship-related concerns. Paula also supports people dealing with parenting strain, career pressures, sleep and eating difficulties, and neurodiverse needs such as autism and ADHD.
She can adapt her approach when health, chronic illness or caregiving stress are part of the picture. Paula is experienced in working with Deaf and hard of hearing people and offers communication-sensitive support, including use of signed English and British Sign Language at an appropriate level.
She provides help for intimacy issues, self-esteem, anger and compassion fatigue alongside long-term mood conditions like bipolar. Therapy sessions are shaped around what each person finds most helpful. Paula blends elements from approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment work, choosing techniques that suit the concern and the individual.
How Paula’s approaches translate to online therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without being driven by them. It focuses on values and small committed actions, which can help with anxiety, depression and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns and teaches practical strategies to change them, useful for phobias, sleep problems and low mood. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current feelings and trust, and can help with intimacy issues and attachment difficulties.Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Paula discusses goals and preferences with each person and adapts methods as therapy progresses. That collaborative decision-making helps make sure techniques feel relevant and manageable for everyday life.
Online formats offer real practical benefits. Video calls recreate a face-to-face rhythm and allow visual cues. Phone sessions work when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging suit quick reflections, ongoing coaching-style support or when someone prefers typing to speaking. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving or mobility challenges while keeping the focus on steady progress.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
- Experience
- 14 years
- Registered with
- BACP, NCPS
- Languages
- English, American Sign Language
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