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Nicola Murray, BACP
- Credentials
- BACP
- Experience
- 6 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesADHD
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Nicola Murray is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with six years of clinical experience and membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). She focuses on helping people who feel overwhelmed, anxious or unsure about next steps. Nicola aims to give clear tools and steady support so people can feel more like their true selves.
Her approach is collaborative and practical. Nicola draws on several methods including cognitive behavioural therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-informed work.
Background and approach
She tailors sessions to each person, choosing techniques that fit their situation and preferences. Nicola has particular experience with stress, anxiety, depression and problems around intimacy and relationships. She also helps people facing grief, trauma, addiction and challenges linked to ADHD and neurodiversity.
Other areas she supports include sleep and eating difficulties, parenting strain, anger and low self-esteem. Sessions are geared towards hands-on skills. Clients can expect to learn ways to manage overwhelming thoughts, improve communication, and build routines that help daily life.
Nicola emphasises small, achievable steps rather than quick fixes. Her style is warm and direct. She listens without judgement and works with each person to set clear goals.
Nicola welcomes discussions about how therapy is progressing and adapts plans as needs change.
Approaches that guide online work and connection
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small actions that match those values. It is useful for anxiety, low mood and feeling stuck because it focuses on moving forward even when thoughts are difficult.Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how past relationships shape current patterns. It helps people notice recurring behaviours and learn different ways of relating, which can ease trust and closeness issues.
Finding the right approach is part of the process. Nicola will work together with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, needs and comfort. She checks in as therapy progresses and adjusts techniques so the work remains useful and relevant.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that feels helpful, while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth or camera use is a concern. Live chat and text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins, paced conversations or times when writing feels more helpful. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving or busy days and to keep continuity between sessions.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 6 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English
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