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Lutfa Khanom, NCPS
- Credentials
- NCPS
- Experience
- 9 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteemCoping with life changes
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Lutfa Khanom welcomes people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship strain or grief. She writes simply and kindly, and aims to give steady support while someone works through a hard time. Lutfa uses clear, everyday language and practical steps so conversations feel manageable.
She is introduced as a counsellor with NCPS and nine years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She helps people facing family difficulties, parenting strain, and problems with intimacy and communication.
Background and approach
Lutfa also supports those dealing with loss, career worries, low self-esteem, and anger. Her additional focus areas include issues such as abandonment, attachment difficulties, codependency, and separation challenges. In a session Lutfa encourages people to share their thoughts without fear of judgement.
She listens first, then works with each person to set small, realistic goals. Sessions aim to build coping skills and clearer ways of relating to others. Lutfa offers a calm approach when grief, chronic illness or end-of-life concerns are present, including hospice and bereavement-related work.
She also addresses feelings of emptiness, shame or isolation with gentle practical guidance. The emphasis is on everyday techniques that can be used between sessions. Her practice is suitable for people who want straightforward talk and practical tools.
Lutfa stresses collaboration - she and the person she sees decide what to try next. That makes progress feel paced to individual needs and rhythms.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online care
Many evidence-based techniques focus on practical skills and clearer ways of relating. One common approach involves teaching coping skills for stress and anxiety through step-by-step exercises and breathing or grounding techniques. This helps people manage intense feelings in daily life and during difficult moments.Another approach emphasises improving communication and attachment patterns by practising new ways to express needs and set boundaries. It can help with intimacy-related issues, codependency, and family communication problems by building small, repeatable habits in how people speak and listen.
Choosing the right method is a joint process. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences, try an approach, and adjust based on how things feel. That collaborative stance helps tailor work to a person's pace and priorities.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls let people use visual cues and share more personal exchange. Phone sessions work well when internet bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit those who prefer writing, want more frequent brief contact, or need to fit sessions around work or caregiving. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt session length and format to what suits each person best.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Narcissism
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Experience
- 9 years
- Registered with
- NCPS
- Languages
- English
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