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John Phelan, BACP

Credentials
BACP
Experience
15 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Sessions
Online only
Client ages
Adults, 18 and over

Works with Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteemCareer difficulties

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John Phelan is a counsellor with 15 years of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety and family difficulties. He works with people facing grief and loss, low self-esteem, and struggles with motivation. John aims to treat everyone with respect, sensitivity and compassion.

He adapts conversations to each person’s needs so therapy fits real life. Over his career he has supported people through career uncertainty and issues around identity and belonging.

Background and approach

He also focuses on attachment difficulties, communication problems, fatherhood concerns, and midlife questions. John has experience with autism and Asperger syndrome and with problems such as hoarding, guilt, shame and isolation. John uses three well‑established approaches in his work.

Client-Centred Therapy keeps the person’s experience central and helps build self-understanding. Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns from the past that affect present behaviour. Solution-Focused Therapy aims to identify practical steps and small changes that move someone forward.

Sessions are offered in English and John accepts international clients practising from the United Kingdom. He says the first step often feels hardest, and he focuses on making the initial sessions straightforward and manageable. He listens for what matters most and then agrees simple goals to work towards.

John describes his role as a steady presence who asks direct questions and offers reflective feedback. He balances exploring feelings with finding workable strategies. The aim is clearer thinking, more confidence, and better ways of handling everyday pressures.

Approaches that shape online counselling

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s experience and aims to build understanding and self-compassion through attentive, non-judgemental listening. It helps when people need a space to be heard and to work out their own solutions.

Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns in relationships and behaviour that began earlier in life. By talking through those patterns, people can gain insight into recurring problems and make different choices now.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences and then suggest which methods might suit you best. Decisions about focus and pace are made collaboratively so the sessions stay relevant.

Online therapy offers flexibility for busy or distant lives. Video calls let you use visual cues and longer conversations, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or text-based messaging supports brief check-ins or written reflection. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel while keeping continuity of care with registered or accredited professionals.
What concerns does John commonly help with?
He works with stress, anxiety, family difficulties, grief, self-esteem and career concerns, alongside related issues such as attachment, communication and isolation.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions combine warm listening with practical problem-solving. He balances exploring feelings with setting small, achievable goals.
How long has he been practising?
He has 15 years of counselling experience supporting people with a wide range of life challenges.
What professional credential does he hold and where is he based?
He is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom.
Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?
Yes, he accepts international clients and offers sessions across borders in English.
Which session formats are offered?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions paid for?
Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time, and cost varies with location and therapist availability.
How do I start working with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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Experience
15 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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