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John Phelan, BACP
- Credentials
- BACP
- Experience
- 15 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteemCareer difficulties
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John Phelan is a counsellor with 15 years of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety and family difficulties. He works with people facing grief and loss, low self-esteem, and struggles with motivation. John aims to treat everyone with respect, sensitivity and compassion.
He adapts conversations to each person’s needs so therapy fits real life. Over his career he has supported people through career uncertainty and issues around identity and belonging.
Background and approach
He also focuses on attachment difficulties, communication problems, fatherhood concerns, and midlife questions. John has experience with autism and Asperger syndrome and with problems such as hoarding, guilt, shame and isolation. John uses three well‑established approaches in his work.
Client-Centred Therapy keeps the person’s experience central and helps build self-understanding. Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns from the past that affect present behaviour. Solution-Focused Therapy aims to identify practical steps and small changes that move someone forward.
Sessions are offered in English and John accepts international clients practising from the United Kingdom. He says the first step often feels hardest, and he focuses on making the initial sessions straightforward and manageable. He listens for what matters most and then agrees simple goals to work towards.
John describes his role as a steady presence who asks direct questions and offers reflective feedback. He balances exploring feelings with finding workable strategies. The aim is clearer thinking, more confidence, and better ways of handling everyday pressures.
Approaches that shape online counselling
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person’s experience and aims to build understanding and self-compassion through attentive, non-judgemental listening. It helps when people need a space to be heard and to work out their own solutions.Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns in relationships and behaviour that began earlier in life. By talking through those patterns, people can gain insight into recurring problems and make different choices now.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences and then suggest which methods might suit you best. Decisions about focus and pace are made collaboratively so the sessions stay relevant.
Online therapy offers flexibility for busy or distant lives. Video calls let you use visual cues and longer conversations, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or text-based messaging supports brief check-ins or written reflection. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel while keeping continuity of care with registered or accredited professionals.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
Also listed
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Career difficulties
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 15 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English
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