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Barbara Coates, BACP

Credentials
BACP
Experience
5 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Sessions
Online only
Client ages
Adults, 18 and over

Works with Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteemDepression

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Barbara Coates is a psychotherapist practising in the United Kingdom with five years of professional experience. She holds a Master's degree and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. Barbara offers a calm, compassionate presence that aims to help people talk through difficult feelings and regain a sense of control.

She works in a flexible, person-centred way. Sessions focus on what matters most to the individual and are adapted to each person’s needs.

Background and approach

Barbara listens without judgement and helps people spot strengths, patterns and practical steps they can use between sessions. Barbara supports people facing stress, anxiety, low mood and trauma, among other concerns. She also works with issues such as grief, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, anger and problems with sleep.

Her wider focus includes ADHD, compassion fatigue, chronic pain and caregiver stress, and problems rooted in family of origin, attachment or abandonment. Her approach draws on Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). That combination is used to help people understand how past relationships influence current feelings, to explore unhelpful thought patterns, and to build practical coping strategies.

Sessions may include breathing and grounding exercises, thought-challenging techniques, and step-by-step plans for tackling difficult situations. Barbara aims to help people build routines and skills that reduce symptoms and improve day-to-day wellbeing.

Online approaches that help build understanding and skills

Attachment-Based Therapy helps people see how early relationships shape current emotional reactions and relationship patterns. In sessions this might mean looking at past connection experiences and noticing how they show up now, which can help with anxiety, relationship difficulties and feelings of emptiness.

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on a respectful, non-judgemental conversation where the person’s own goals guide the work. This approach supports people who need space to explore feelings, build self-worth and find their own solutions.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at links between thoughts, feelings, physical sensations and behaviours. It is useful for tackling anxiety, low mood and unhelpful habits by teaching practical techniques like thought-challenging and behavioural experiments.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Barbara will work collaboratively to match methods to a person’s needs, goals and preferences and may combine elements from different approaches over time.

Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation when seeing expressions matters. Phone sessions can be a good option when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging let people check in between sessions or manage quick updates and brief reflections. These options help people fit therapy around work, study and family commitments while keeping continuity of care with registered or accredited professionals.
What concerns does Barbara help with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and grief, and a range of other issues such as self-esteem, addiction, sleep problems and bipolar-related challenges.
What is her style in sessions?
Her style is warm and non-judgemental and focuses on listening, exploring strengths and finding practical steps you can try between sessions.
What experience does she have?
Barbara has five years of professional experience and holds a Master’s degree in psychotherapy.
What credential does she hold and where does she practise?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Barbara also accepts clients from outside the UK.
What session formats are available?
She works online using video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different preferences.
How are sessions charged?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are delivered via a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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Experience
5 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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