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Alex Hayes, BACP

Credentials
BACP
Experience
3 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Sessions
Online only
Client ages
Adults, 18 and over

Works with Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

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Alex Hayes is a BACP counsellor who uses a person-centred way of working. He aims to walk alongside people as they make changes, offering steady support in a non-judgemental space. He draws on several therapeutic approaches to match the needs of each person.

He has three years of practice across counselling centres, addiction treatment settings and personal work in Cape Town, Belgium and the United Kingdom. That mix of settings has given him experience with addiction, grief, anxiety and stress, among other concerns.

Background and approach

He also helps with issues around identity and intimacy, including LGBTQ concerns and alternative sex culture topics. Sessions focus on what matters to the individual. Conversations are guided by the client with gentle challenge when useful.

Practical tools from cognitive and behavioural approaches are used alongside work on emotional connection and attachment. Alex also supports people dealing with life transitions, career uncertainty and feelings of emptiness. He offers approaches that address mood difficulties such as depression and bipolar symptoms, and practical skills for anger, impulsivity and sleep problems.

He understands recovery from addiction personally and professionally, and brings that perspective when helping with substance and behavioural addictions. Alex works in English and carries the BACP credential, which indicates professional membership with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, often called ACT, helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then commit to actions that match their values; it is useful for anxiety, stress and life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and patterns and practising different behaviours and skills to reduce symptoms such as low mood, anxiety and sleep problems. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns in close relationships and how past and current connections shape feelings and behaviour, which can help with intimacy, abandonment and communication difficulties.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals and preferences. That means trying approaches, reviewing what helps and adjusting the plan together rather than imposing a single method.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can be helpful when bandwidth is limited or for a shorter check-in. Live chat and text-based messaging suit people who prefer to write, need flexible timing or want a way to reflect between messages. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel and different schedules while using the approaches outlined above.
What concerns does Alex commonly help with?
He supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, self-esteem and coping with life changes among many other issues.
What is his therapeutic style like?
He works in a person-centred, client-guided way and combines practical tools with relational work to support change.
What experience does he bring to sessions?
He has three years of experience working in counselling centres, addiction treatment settings and independent practice across Cape Town, Belgium and the United Kingdom.
Where is he based and what credentials does he hold?
He is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP membership with that organisation.
Which languages are supported for therapy?
Sessions are offered in English.
How are online sessions conducted?
Sessions can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging depending on what suits the person best.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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Experience
3 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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