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Victoria Porteous, NCPS
- Credentials
- NCPS
- Experience
- 11 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes
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Victoria Porteous uses a conversational, person-centred style that aims to make therapy feel like an honest conversation. She draws on her own experience of loss and recovery to connect with people facing difficult life changes. Victoria keeps sessions straightforward and occasionally lightens the mood with gentle humour to help people feel at ease.
She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and addictive behaviours including drug and alcohol problems. Relationship strains, intimacy-related issues, blended family and parenting challenges are common topics she helps people talk through.
Background and approach
She also supports people dealing with grief, low self-esteem, ADHD and career or coaching concerns. Victoria combines practical tools with reflective conversation. She may offer ways to manage difficult thoughts and to shift behaviours that get in the way of daily life.
At times she will challenge unhelpful thinking so people can see different perspectives and make new choices. Her background includes running counselling services for a Government-backed trauma charity during the Covid period, working mainly with complex trauma survivors.
She also works with people referred through charities and by doctors or government agencies, and has provided counselling and coaching in independent practice and organisational settings. Victoria holds NCPS as a credential and has 11 years of experience. She has worked with business leaders, athletes and public figures and contributes to national radio on mental health and social equality.
Her approach is tailored to each person, aiming to be the kind of support she found helpful during her own difficult times.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online counselling
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, focuses on helping people notice and accept difficult thoughts and feelings while committing to actions that reflect their values. It is useful for anxiety, stress and life changes when people want clearer direction for their actions.Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns influence current ways of relating. It can help people understand why they respond strongly in relationships and build different ways of connecting and managing conflict.
Finding the right approach is part of the work and will be a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss your needs and preferences and suggest approaches that fit your goals. Over time the plan can change as progress is made and new priorities emerge.
Online therapy offers flexibility in how people meet a therapist. Video calls are close to face-to-face contact and allow non-verbal cues to be seen, phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when video is not suitable, and live chat or text-based messaging lets people check in or have shorter, focused exchanges between sessions. These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work, family life and travel while still using established therapeutic approaches with registered or accredited professionals.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 11 years
- Registered with
- NCPS
- Languages
- English
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