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Gordon Birnie, NCPS
- Credentials
- NCPS
- Experience
- 3 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesDepression
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Gordon Birnie helps people navigate sexual and relationship concerns, anxiety, depression and the stress of life changes. He also supports matters around intimacy, self-esteem and sexual function. Gordon offers straightforward, non-judgemental care in a calm, down-to-earth way.
He has three years of professional experience and holds the NCPS credential. Gordon has worked with people across a range of sexual and relationship concerns, including LGBT matters, gender identity and alternative sexual cultures such as BDSM and kink.
Background and approach
Gordon uses practical conversation to clarify what a person wants to change. Sessions focus on everyday steps that make a difference, such as improving communication, reducing shame, or rebuilding sexual confidence. He draws on client-centred ways of working to follow what matters to the individual.
When relationship patterns are part of the problem he uses Imago ideas to look at how past attachment experiences shape current closeness. For people who prefer focused goal work he includes solution-focused techniques to set clear, manageable steps. Sessions are offered in English and delivered online by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging.
To begin, a short matching questionnaire is completed and appointments are scheduled to suit both parties. Gordon aims to be practical and direct while keeping the conversation respectful and sensitive.
Approaches that guide online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy puts the person's experience at the heart of sessions. The therapist listens without judgement and follows what the client brings, which can help with anxiety, low self-esteem and sexual confidence.Imago Relationship Therapy looks at how early attachment experiences affect current relationships. It helps people notice repeating patterns and practise new ways of connecting and communicating with partners.
Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical steps and realistic goals. It is useful when someone wants short-term clarity or actionable ways to change specific behaviours and problems.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Gordon will help a person decide which ideas to try based on their needs, goals and preferences. That decision is made together and can change as progress is made.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video is useful for a full conversation and face-to-face feel, phone can work when bandwidth is limited, and chat or messaging suits brief check-ins or people who prefer not to be on camera. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and different routines.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Career difficulties
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Trauma and abuse
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 3 years
- Registered with
- NCPS
- Languages
- English
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