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Gary Main, BACP
- Credentials
- BACP
- Experience
- 25 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefDepressionCoping with life changes
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Gary Main has practised as a counsellor for over 25 years and holds BACP accreditation. He works full time and has experience in a range of settings, including extended periods within NHS services and charitable organisations. Gary aims to create a calm, welcoming space for people to talk about difficult feelings and everyday pressures.
He supports people facing stress and anxiety, low mood and depression, grief and bereavement, and the strain that comes with life changes.
Background and approach
Relationship difficulties, separation and communication problems are also areas he focuses on. Gary listens without judgement and helps people make sense of what they are feeling. Gary uses straightforward, practical methods that suit individual needs.
He draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice thoughts and choose actions that align with their values. Client-centred ideas guide how he offers empathy and a non-directive presence. His approach is down-to-earth and paced to each person.
Sessions aim to clarify priorities, reduce unhelpful patterns and build small steps that make daily life easier. He pays attention to how guilt, shame or isolation can hold people back and works on ways to address those feelings. People can expect a collaborative style where goals are set together and adjusted as needed.
Gary explains options in simple terms and helps people try practical strategies between sessions. He offers support for issues such as panic, self-worth, sexuality and finding a clearer sense of purpose.
How these approaches work online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match what matters to them. Online sessions can use this approach to tackle anxiety, panic and life transitions by setting small, values-based steps to practise between meetings.Client-Centred Therapy focuses on empathetic listening and giving people space to find their own solutions. In an online setting this often means talking through concerns while the counsellor reflects and summarises, helping people feel heard and more able to make changes.
Emotionally-Focused Therapy aims to identify and shift patterns in emotional responses, particularly around relationship pain and attachment-related worries. Over video or phone this can involve naming emotions, noticing reactions and experimenting with different ways of connecting and responding.
Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Gary will explore your goals, preferences and what feels most helpful, then suggest ways of working together. That choice is made with you, and can change as your needs evolve.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation; phone sessions suit lower bandwidth or when you prefer not to use video. Live chat and text-based messaging can provide shorter check-ins, written reflections and support between longer sessions. These options help fit therapy around work, care duties and daily life.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
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- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
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Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 25 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English
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