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Dilnia Horton, BACP
- Credentials
- BACP
- Experience
- 13 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English, Kurdish
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Relationship issuesFamily conflictsEating disordersParenting issues
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Dilnia Horton welcomes people who are feeling stuck in their relationships, struggling with family pressures, or worried about eating and body image. She introduces herself in a calm way and helps people take the first step toward change. Sessions are offered in English and Kurdish for those who prefer either language.
She draws on 13 years of practice to help people tackle parenting challenges and self-esteem concerns. In appointments she aims for straightforward conversation about what is happening now and what a person wants to be different.
Background and approach
That often means naming patterns, testing small changes, and noticing what feels helpful in daily life. Dilnia uses a mix of methods to suit different needs. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Emotionally-Focused techniques and mindfulness are among the approaches she brings into sessions.
She also uses psychodynamic ideas to look at long-running patterns that may affect current relationships. Her style is practical and compassionate. She listens for recurring difficulties such as attachment worries, codependency and communication problems, then works with clients to build clearer ways of relating.
Parents receive focused support for balancing care demands and managing family conflict. People looking to begin simply choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and book a time that fits their schedule. Sessions are available as video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging, so people can pick the format that suits them best.
Approaches used online and how they help
CBT, or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, looks at how thoughts and behaviours keep problems going and teaches practical steps to change them. It can be useful for addressing low self-esteem, eating concerns and unhelpful thinking patterns.Emotionally-Focused Therapy focuses on feelings in relationships and helps people understand and change emotional responses that fuel conflict or distance. This can support people working through communication issues, attachment worries and problems with commitment.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and try different ways of working until something fits. This is a collaborative decision that can change as therapy progresses.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging, which makes it easier to fit therapy into busy lives. Video is closer to an in-person talk, phone can be quicker and needs less bandwidth, while chat or messaging suits brief check-ins or people who prefer writing. These options help people keep continuity of care and make attendance more flexible for work and family commitments.
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Areas of focus
What this therapist works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Eating disorders
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 13 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English, Kurdish
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