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Barry Golten, BACP
- Credentials
- BACP
- Experience
- 10 years
- Practising in
- United Kingdom
- Languages
- English
- Sessions
- Online only
- Client ages
- Adults, 18 and over
Works with Self esteemCoping with life changes
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Barry Golten works with people facing low self-esteem, anxiety, stress and depression. He also supports those dealing with relationship strain, addictions, trauma, grief and intimacy-related issues. Many seek help for career questions, ADHD, compassion fatigue and exploring identity or non‑monogamous relationship dynamics.
He brings ten years' experience as a counsellor and coach, and holds BACP registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. His background includes long service in the charity sector and later roles delivering training in trauma, attachment and resilience.
Background and approach
That mix informs a practical, down-to-earth style. Sessions are conversational and goal-oriented. He draws on Internal Family Systems to help people notice different parts of themselves and how those parts influence feelings and behaviour.
He also uses solution-focused ideas to identify small, doable steps that move things forward quickly. Barry aims to create a calm space where people can speak openly about shame, abandonment or grief. He pays attention to how past relationships shape current reactions, while helping clients find their own strengths.
Work can include coaching elements for life purpose, career change and fatherhood concerns. Practical matters such as scheduling and the session format are arranged together. International clients who speak English can be supported.
The overall aim is steady, realistic progress rather than quick fixes.
How therapeutic approaches meet online therapy
Internal Family Systems helps people recognise and talk to different parts of themselves. It invites curiosity about inner voices and can be useful for trauma, shame, relationship patterns and self‑criticism. The method focuses on building an inner observer and calming parts that carry pain.Solution-focused ideas aim for small, practical steps that change day-to-day life. Instead of spending a long time analysing problems, this approach looks for what already works and how to do more of it. That can be helpful for stress, career choices and coaching around life direction.
Finding the right approach is part of the work and is decided together. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences and suggest ways of working that fit those aims. This is a collaborative process and plans can change as progress is made.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and messaging suits brief check-ins or people who prefer writing. These options make it simpler to fit sessions around work, family life or travel while still getting steady therapeutic support.
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Areas of focus
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Relationship issues
- Self-love
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Registered with
- BACP
- Languages
- English
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