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Barry Golten, BACP

Credentials
BACP
Experience
10 years
Practising in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Sessions
Online only
Client ages
Adults, 18 and over

Works with Self esteemCoping with life changes

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Barry Golten works with people facing low self-esteem, anxiety, stress and depression. He also supports those dealing with relationship strain, addictions, trauma, grief and intimacy-related issues. Many seek help for career questions, ADHD, compassion fatigue and exploring identity or non‑monogamous relationship dynamics.

He brings ten years' experience as a counsellor and coach, and holds BACP registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. His background includes long service in the charity sector and later roles delivering training in trauma, attachment and resilience.

Background and approach

That mix informs a practical, down-to-earth style. Sessions are conversational and goal-oriented. He draws on Internal Family Systems to help people notice different parts of themselves and how those parts influence feelings and behaviour.

He also uses solution-focused ideas to identify small, doable steps that move things forward quickly. Barry aims to create a calm space where people can speak openly about shame, abandonment or grief. He pays attention to how past relationships shape current reactions, while helping clients find their own strengths.

Work can include coaching elements for life purpose, career change and fatherhood concerns. Practical matters such as scheduling and the session format are arranged together. International clients who speak English can be supported.

The overall aim is steady, realistic progress rather than quick fixes.

How therapeutic approaches meet online therapy

Internal Family Systems helps people recognise and talk to different parts of themselves. It invites curiosity about inner voices and can be useful for trauma, shame, relationship patterns and self‑criticism. The method focuses on building an inner observer and calming parts that carry pain.

Solution-focused ideas aim for small, practical steps that change day-to-day life. Instead of spending a long time analysing problems, this approach looks for what already works and how to do more of it. That can be helpful for stress, career choices and coaching around life direction.

Finding the right approach is part of the work and is decided together. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences and suggest ways of working that fit those aims. This is a collaborative process and plans can change as progress is made.

Online sessions offer practical flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and messaging suits brief check-ins or people who prefer writing. These options make it simpler to fit sessions around work, family life or travel while still getting steady therapeutic support.
What issues does Barry commonly help with?
He supports people with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and stress along with trauma, grief and relationship and intimacy concerns.
How would you describe the therapeutic style used?
Sessions are conversational and practical, blending person-centred listening with solution-focused steps and Internal Family Systems ideas.
What background does he have in this work?
He has ten years' experience and a history of work in the charity sector plus roles delivering training in trauma, attachment and resilience.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.
What session formats are available?
Work can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging depending on preference.
How is cost structured for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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Experience
10 years
Registered with
BACP
Languages
English

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